Tayo’s Infertility Diary 66: Not That Kind of Guy

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November 26, 2008

CD 16, 1DPO

Hopefully, this will be my last 2 week wait for a while! Father Lord, I need that Christmas BFP, something awful!!!

I Heard from my friend where I used to live, and she has had her identical twin girls. Although I felt sad for myself, the girls are the cutest things ever!

As for work! There are so many people off sick, so everyone else has been really busy. In other words, there was no progress with my issue, and I’m quite fed up of the whole thing!!!

To add to the confusion of the day, I got a surprise visit from my sister-in-law, Natalia. We haven’t really spoken since Folly, her boyfriend and my brother, returned to the U.S. It turns out things haven’t gotten better with her kids, who have been giving her a hard time for dating after their father.

“I’m off to Miami tomorrow.” she announced, as we had tea.

My brows arched in surprise. I’m aware Folly has just moved to Miami, in what appears to be his desire to become more grounded. He had a bad breakup a few years ago, that turned him into something of a nomad. He quit his job, sold his house, and has spent the last couple of years traipsing all over the globe. So we, my brothers and I, were pleasantly surprised that he has finally decided to give up the gypsy life and settle down, even if it is in sunny Florida.

“To see Folly?”

She smiled and blushed, and it made me realize that perhaps it isn’t some rebound fling for her, as Javier and I have thought.

“He asked me to come…and I’ve missed him a lot.” she answers, her eyes twinkling. “If it all works out, I might move there to be with him.”

My eyes bulge from their sockets. “You would? What about the kids? Keith?”

“I’m filing for divorce from Keith.” she answers, with an air of finality in her voice. “The kids will be with him. I’ve lived all my life for them. It’s time to do something for me.”

“You’re sure you won’t change your mind? You’re sure you won’t wake up one day, home sick and missing Keith?” I asked warily.

She laughed and patted my hand. “I know you’re worried about your brother. I would be too. But I haven’t been more sure about anything in my life.”

Later that evening, as I spoke with Javier and told him about the visit, his frown was an indication that he had the same concerns as I did. Well, almost.

“I hope your brother doesn’t let her down.” he’d muttered. “This is a huge, huge step.”

“Folly isn’t that kind of guy.” I said, even though deep down inside, my stomach was in knots with worry. Yes, my brother didn’t have that kind of reputation as a ladies’ man, but can one ever really tell with men?

 

November 27, 2008

CD 17, 2DPO

Yay! No work today, and the bitch isn’t in tomorrow!

Anyways, I got to go to the post office and sent a present for the twins. I was a brave girl, and looked at all the little pink things and only got a little sad and jealous about having no baby to buy for, let alone everything in twos!

Besides that, I’ve been very happy and upbeat, with all the Christmas lights and carols abounding. I love Christmas and still get excited like a little kid. What would make me burst would be my Christmas BFP! That would be EVERYTHING!!!

I just have to have a Christma BFP, as we can’t BD next cycle, as we are staying at Javier’s family home in Spain at Christmas, and the house has notoriously thin walls. Imagine ovulating on December 25th and having to BD on one of those squeaky beds. No way!!!

Anyways, I’m off to Colchester after work tomorrow, to spend some time with my Aunty…so I’m glad about that.

 

 

Catch up on Tayo’s Story here:

  1. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 1: The Beginning
  2. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 2: Little Drops…Big Drops 
  3. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 3: Time Keeper
  4. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 4: Don’t Faint…Don’t Look
  5. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 5: The Afterglow
  6. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 6: Irony
  7. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 7: Adulterer
  8. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 8: Catch 22
  9. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 9: Sister, Sister
  10. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 10: Goose Bumps 
  11. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 11: Gold Digger
  12. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 12: Peak
  13. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 13: Road Trip
  14. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 14: Emotional
  15. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 15: Awful Mess
  16. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 16: Pink Dresses
  17. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 17: My Love
  18. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 18: Summer
  19. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 19: Mindset
  20. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 20: High Street
  21. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 21: Bored, Fat, Sad
  22. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 22: Lessons Learnt
  23. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 23: The Dress versus the Tee-Shirt
  24. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 24: The Hen Night
  25. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 25: Minding my business
  26. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 26: Notice!
  27. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 27: Spotting & Shopping
  28. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 28: Messing About
  29. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 29: Wedding in Tuscany
  30. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 30: Lucky Girl
  31. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 31: The Rescue Plan
  32. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 32: Active Imagination
  33. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 33: Covered Bases
  34. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 34: Homecoming
  35. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 35: House Arrest
  36. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 36: Perfect Stranger
  37. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 37: Evil Genius
  38. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 38: Busy People
  39. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 39: Voltron Moves
  40. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 40: Swinging like a Pendulum 
  41. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 41: Back home
  42. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 42: Kinky Boo
  43. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 43: Divorce is not my portion!
  44. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 44: Get the behind me!
  45. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 45: Different Strokes
  46. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 46: How Far?
  47. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 47: The Pressure
  48. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 48: Yankee Virgin
  49. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 49: Sexy Mama
  50. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 50: The Big 40
  51. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 51: Wait & See
  52. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 52: Life is too short
  53. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 53: Work something out
  54. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 54: Hello Godmother
  55. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 55: A Beautiful Thing
  56. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 56: Raging Demands
  57. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 57: On the rebound
  58. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 58: Limbo
  59. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 59: Messed Up
  60. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 60: Penny Drop
  61. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 61: Robbed
  62. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 62: The other side of me
  63. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 63: Mama Drama
  64. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 64: Unfair
  65. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 65: Deny the chemistry

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