Tayo’s Infertility Diary 42: Kinky Boo

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July 19th, 2008

CD 2

Waking up in my own house, in my own bedroom, in my own bed, was the best feeling ever! No, scratch that! Seeing my gorgeous husband sleeping beside me was the BEST feeling ever. I love that man with every fibre of my being, and if I had made the mistake of doing anything with Ugo in Lagos, I would have regretted it for the rest of my life. I have my soul mate right here with me, and I am grateful for that. I wish Aunt Flo hadn’t arrived yesterday…my boo wasn’t able to errmmm…welcome me home properly. But, to be honest, snuggling with him all night was more than enough for me.

Anyways, it’s Cycle Day 2, and the beginning of yet another cycle!

When Javier woke up, he surprised me with this naughty gift bag from Ann Summers. My husband sure is a kinky one…LOL! It had frilly knickers with detachable suspenders, crotchless knickers, a dildo, and frilly handcuffs. My man sure means business this cycle!

As for temping, I won’t be doing that this time. I got quite addicted to it in previous cycles, but when it drops or doesn’t rise enough, it upsets me, so I’m just relying on my CBFM. Thankfully, our trip to Vegas will be after, and not during, my 2ww. I really don’t want to be anywhere away from the comfort of my home when I find out if I have a BFP…or yet another failed cycle on my hands. We leave on the 20th of August, and thankfully, I will be going with my man this time!

 

July 20th, 2008

I was in bed pretty much all of yesterday, and most of today.

Javier is working away from home for a few days this week. He’s been booked in a hotel in Colchester, and guess who’s tagging along for the ride! By Tuesday, we should be AF-free, and able to have some passionate BD’ing!

Feeling naughty, Javier and I went shopping for a few more kinky goodies to take along with us.

Can’t wait!

 

July 22nd, 2008

CD 5

The hotel Javier’s company placed him is surprisingly nice (for Essex…lol!), and we’ve been having a fantastic time.

We have started BD’ing… obviously for fun at this stage!

I’m here until Thursday, while Javier will stay on until Sunday. I have to leave early, to attend the funeral of an old colleague of mine, a lovely middle-aged Scottish woman. She was only in her early 50s, and was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer only last year. May she rest in peace.

Oh, before I forget…I’ve had several missed calls from Solape’s older sister, Yinka, but I haven’t been in the mood to return any of them. Maybe when I’m back home, and bored, I might do that. After only just detangling myself from that messy situation, the last thing I need is to be roped back in. If I’m to guess why she’s been calling, she probably knows Solape is back in town, and wants to scoop about what went down. Well, my lips are sealed. Let her get the gist from her sister.

 

July 23rd, 2008

Okay, so we did not go for a walk into fields around the hotel to get up to no good, as we’d planned. And not because we suddenly felt too shy, but because it was flying ant day yesterday!!! I nearly had a heart attack as we started walking to a nearby pub, and seeing them all on the floor. Eeeeeewwwww!!! I HATE insects with a passion, and it’s the one day a year I don’t go out! Also, the night before, I felt sick (even when we were BD’ing), so I didn’t sleep well, and then I tired myself out swimming in the afternoon, a cold started, and I got a cold sore!!! Aaaaargh!!! To cut a long story short, we didn’t BD last night.

 

July 24th, 2008

We were able to BD last night, even though I was feeling sick again! But I still enjoyed it, and almost laughed because I thought I would throw up mid-BD! That would have been really something!

I’ll leave for home this evening. It’s not such a long drive (about an hour), but if I go at night, the roads are quieter, and I spend less time by myself. Then off for the funeral tomorrow.

Not really looking forward to my weekend alone!

 

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For the TTC Newbies

AF = Aunt Flo (your period)

BD = Baby Dance (have sex)

CBFM = Clear Blue Fertility Monitor

CD = Cycle Day

atch up on Tayo’s Story here:

  1. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 1: The Beginning
  2. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 2: Little Drops…Big Drops 
  3. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 3: Time Keeper
  4. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 4: Don’t Faint…Don’t Look
  5. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 5: The Afterglow
  6. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 6: Irony
  7. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 7: Adulterer
  8. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 8: Catch 22
  9. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 9: Sister, Sister
  10. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 10: Goose Bumps 
  11. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 11: Gold Digger
  12. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 12: Peak
  13. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 13: Road Trip
  14. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 14: Emotional
  15. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 15: Awful Mess
  16. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 16: Pink Dresses
  17. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 17: My Love
  18. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 18: Summer
  19. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 19: Mindset
  20. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 20: High Street
  21. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 21: Bored, Fat, Sad
  22. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 22: Lessons Learnt
  23. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 23: The Dress versus the Tee-Shirt
  24. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 24: The Hen Night
  25. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 25: Minding my business
  26. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 26: Notice!
  27. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 27: Spotting & Shopping
  28. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 28: Messing About
  29. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 29: Wedding in Tuscany
  30. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 30: Lucky Girl
  31. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 31: The Rescue Plan
  32. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 32: Active Imagination
  33. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 33: Covered Bases
  34. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 34: Homecoming
  35. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 35: House Arrest
  36. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 36: Perfect Stranger
  37. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 37: Evil Genius
  38. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 38: Busy People
  39. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 39: Voltron Moves
  40. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 40: Swinging like a Pendulum 
  41. Tayo’s Infertility Diary 41: Back home

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