Jesusbaby

  • Nicole and Profile picture of JesusbabyJesusbaby are now friends 1 month, 4 weeks ago

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  • Jesusbaby posted a new activity comment 2 years, 5 months ago

    Thanks for your responses :good: @Pearl, @ nicole, it’s really not an easy road but will remain hopeful, sometimes I really do not understand why Mother Nature treats us this way. I’m emotionally drained to say the least. Don’t know what else to do.

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    • You are most welcome @jesusbaby. All the struggles/challenges we all face one way or the other is the reason for our existence, if not then all will be perfect. The Lord is your strength and sending your way loads of postive vibes. :hugs:
      cc: @Nicole

  • Jesusbaby posted an update in the group Group logo of Adoption GroupAdoption Group 2 years, 6 months ago

    Hello peeps! I’m glad to be here. Westarted an adoption process here for a baby girl in Abuja through Gender office Area10 but the process is becoming too difficult. Please how can I get an easy way out, I need contacts pls @ Nicole & Oluwakemi

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    • @jesusbaby so sorry about your experience atm but I must be truthful with you on this matter that it is not as easy as most people think. I was on that same route in 2011/2012 but we had to drop that idea due to the difficult system and our lifestyles (papers, meetings, test, family history, consequences, work, travel, etc)
      What actually made my…[Read more]

      • Hi Jesusbaby @jesusbaby. Honestly, I wish, I had some contacts to share with you right now. Unfortunately, Pearl @pearl just laid it bare, adoption is quite tedious in Nigeria as a whole. Someone adopted here, years back but it wasn’t Abuja. All the same, I will send a message to see if she has any helpful tips or contacts to share.
        Meanwhile,…[Read more]

    • Thanks for your responses :good: @Pearl, @ nicole, it’s really not an easy road but will remain hopeful, sometimes I really do not understand why Mother Nature treats us this way. I’m emotionally drained to say the least. Don’t know what else to do.

      • You are most welcome @jesusbaby. All the struggles/challenges we all face one way or the other is the reason for our existence, if not then all will be perfect. The Lord is your strength and sending your way loads of postive vibes. :hugs:
        cc: @Nicole

  • Hi Sweethearts!

    I must first & foremost appreciate each one of you for your words of advice and encouragements, I was elated when I read your messages and in mind, I was like, this is a family. I had to “switch off”yesterday to nurse my wound, busted work..went somewhere and cried my eyes out!

    My first cycle of IVF and IUI(forgot to mention) was…[Read more]

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  • Jesusbaby posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago

    This is my second IVF cycle, in the first cycle, i got a BFP but @ 8 weeks I had a missed abortion that was in 2013, subsequently I have been taking in naturally, lost a right tube in the cause, been conceiving but ends up as missed abortion, decided to try IVF again only to be greeted with this horrible news this morning…

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    • Thanks for the info @jesusbaby; please do ask your doctor to look into reasons as to why you are having recurrent miscarriages because you concieving naturally shows you can concieve on your own but sustaining the pregnancy might be a challenge.
      Moving forward, I have my suspicion that your doctor thinks its might be chromosomal issue or egg…[Read more]

  • Jesusbaby posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago

    Thanks for your kind words @oluwakemine, I’m just so afraid about the future, How do I break the news to my in laws & family? Hubby doesn’t seem to see anything wrong with the whole idea but I’m just not finding it funny. What if the child doesn’t look like ‘US’?

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    • I can imagine the way you feel about this @jesusbaby. A child that’s genetically not yours but remember, the child will be of your husband’s loins and that counts for something. As for telling families, you shouldn’t have to worry about that now. This is the fundamental stage.

  • Jesusbaby posted an update in the group Group logo of IVF BuddiesIVF Buddies 2 years, 8 months ago

    Good morning sisters, not very happy at all. I just left the Hosp feeling very downcast .TVS showed that I’m responding slowly after 9 days of stimms. He suggested I use donor eggs at the moment as he doesn’t want me to waste this treatment cycle. Hubby accepted the offer but I’m having mixed feelings. I just feel like I’m finished. I need some…[Read more]

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    • :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: @jesusbaby. I was just thinking about you today. Being told to use donor eggs is no beans, so Ii understand perfectly, if you feel out of sorts. But you are not alone. You’re definitely not finished at all, far from it. You have only been presented with another route to get to your destination; motherhood.
      Just give…[Read more]

      • Thanks for your kind words @oluwakemine, I’m just so afraid about the future, How do I break the news to my in laws & family? Hubby doesn’t seem to see anything wrong with the whole idea but I’m just not finding it funny. What if the child doesn’t look like ‘US’?

        • I can imagine the way you feel about this @jesusbaby. A child that’s genetically not yours but remember, the child will be of your husband’s loins and that counts for something. As for telling families, you shouldn’t have to worry about that now. This is the fundamental stage.

    • @jesusbaby, I have no idea of how many cycles you have done and what you are using or have used but all hope isnt lost 9days is not bad in my opinon and based on personal experiences.
      Did the doctor increased your dosage of injectibles or he is just opting for donor eggs, also which of the injectibles are you on and what challenges sent you…[Read more]

      • @jesusbaby, I’m so sorry to read this – but I would say – look at the brighter side – which is that you have been presented with an alternative option of being a Mom. And the great thing is – Your hubby is on board., so you don’t have that to worry about. the most important part of TTC is not giving up – keep trying, keep praying, keep at it keep…[Read more]

      • This is my second IVF cycle, in the first cycle, i got a BFP but @ 8 weeks I had a missed abortion that was in 2013, subsequently I have been taking in naturally, lost a right tube in the cause, been conceiving but ends up as missed abortion, decided to try IVF again only to be greeted with this horrible news this morning…

        • Thanks for the info @jesusbaby; please do ask your doctor to look into reasons as to why you are having recurrent miscarriages because you concieving naturally shows you can concieve on your own but sustaining the pregnancy might be a challenge.
          Moving forward, I have my suspicion that your doctor thinks its might be chromosomal issue or egg…[Read more]

      • Hi Pearl @pearl, her dosage had been increased before now, because the follicles were growing, even though they were in multiples. The reason for ART is repeated miscarriages. Jesusbaby @jesusbaby, what injectibles are you on? Pearl might be able to provide some insights into this scenario.

        • Thanks @oluwakemine the doctor can as well increase the dosage on every appointment depending on the patient history but if patient is at risk for OHSS and stimulation is taking a while then the cycle might as well be cancelled along the line. 😥
          You also said the reason for ART is reccurent miscarriages but the doctor is yet to figure out…[Read more]

          • I concur with your assertion of finding the root cause of the miscarriages @pearl but a cycle is going on already and now, there’s the choice of donor conception. Yet the underlining factor of repeated miscarriage is still present.

    • @jesusbaby, I’m so sorry to read this – but I would say – look at the brighter side – which is that you have been presented with an alternative option of being a Mom. And the great thing is – Your hubby is on board., so you don’t have that to worry about. the most important part of TTC is not giving up – keep trying, keep praying, keep at it ke…[Read more]

    • @jesusbaby, Fear not, be not dismayed for God is with you, he will strengthen you and help you. He will uphold you with his righteous right hand.
      I won’t say I understand the thoughts going through your mind, but I’ll encourage you to pray about it, and the holy spirit will lead you. ” you shall hear a voice saying this is the way to go”. It is…[Read more]

    • @jesusbaby sending you lots of hugs right now…….Fret not dear, the Lord has got you in his palms.
      My few cents, as all these beautiful ladies have said it all is to have a second opinion. Sometimes, these docs aren’t ready to try, i only read recurrent miscarriage which i suspect as @pearl stated could be chromosomal. If i read diminished…[Read more]

    • Oh @jesusbaby, I’m so sorry about the news you got. I can understand how devastated you feel. Like @pearl, the first time you mentioned the recurrent miscarriage issue, remember I was more about us getting to the root cause of it. ART didn’t seem like something I would have thought would be the next step. Like @bosa said, I absolutely agree that a…[Read more]

      • I dont know which country or hospital she is cycling with @Nicole but suggesting a donor after 2 or one and half ivf is just strange and absurd to me based on follicles not growing and also neglecting the fact that the patient had previously experienced several miscarriages.**something doesnt seem right.** :unsure:

        • Completely agree with you @pearl it’s kinda strange opting for that route without resolving the recurrent miscarriage issue. @jesusbaby needs to ask more questions and understand the doc’s reason for this route.

    • oh dear!@jesusbaby, please don’t be devastated. if you don’t mind me asking, where did you cycle? was your transfer a 3 or 5 day transfer? I don’t think your doctor has done all he should have before suggesting donor. if you can get pregnant naturally and miscarry, then ART shouldn’t have been IVF unless he suspected chromosomal abnomalities .…[Read more]

  • Jesusbaby posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago

    Hopefully by Monday. :hug:

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  • Jesusbaby posted a new activity comment 2 years, 8 months ago

    Thanks dear! :hug:

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  • Jesusbaby posted an update in the group Group logo of IVF BuddiesIVF Buddies 2 years, 8 months ago

    Hello Moms, I’ve been a little busy in the office lately..haven’t really had time to update you @oluwakemine@nicole@uloma …and so, I started stimulating on the 3 /03/2017 and currently on day 7 of Stims. I had my first scan yesterday(day 6) and Doc decided to increase the dosage due to the follicules were small but in multiple. So hopefully…[Read more]

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  • : Hello peeps!

    Happy New month.~Ash Wednesday…. im still down regulating on buserelin injections (day11) my period is 2days late but I’m told it’s normal   which means I’m to continue with the injections till the period comes. I’m having serious breakouts as a result of the injections .it is well o. Has anyone experienced this, pls how did you…[Read more]

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  • Hi @Oluwakemine; finally,I started my Buserelin injections today & they wanted me to go home so I can self inject..I declined😬 too scared of needles at my age o😜. I have gone through series of test to ascertain the reasons behind my losses yet their was no underlining factor, no cyst, no pcos..I have lost 4pregnancies including an ectopic within 4…[Read more]

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  • Jesusbaby posted an update 2 years, 9 months ago

    @oluwakemine, just picked up my test results for Thyroid function. The TSH, T3and T4 falls within the normal range thats TSH 3.3uiU/ml,T3 0.96ng/ml,T4 4.3ug/dl. Although I’m seeing my doc in the evening for clarifications. Have a blessed weekend

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  • @Oluwakemine, Happy February dear B-) being very busy lately that I hardly even check my updates. Keto is going on with little cheating here & there   B-) (abeg e no easy) I’m cycling this feb, but like you advised I’m trying to get to the root of what’s been causing my miscarriages, results so far has been awesome still expecting the tyroid t…[Read more]

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  • Jesusbaby posted a new activity comment 2 years, 10 months ago

    No Doctor has been able to ascertain what is really causing the miscarriages. Have done series of tests yet I’ve been told countless times that I’m fine. A doctor friend just suggested IVF that’s why I’m giving it try.

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  • Osy and Profile picture of JesusbabyJesusbaby are now friends 2 years, 10 months ago

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