Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 130: Mama Effiowan

June 19th, 2013

My mood from hell seems to have passed (which is a great relief to my Patrick). I don’t know why, but for some reason this week my mood has totally changed and I’ve been feeling really happy…and extremely hyper.

I’ve sorted out the nursery, washed all the baby’s clothes and I’ve phoned everyone I’d been meaning to get in touch with for ages. I was going to be a virtuous wife and cook lots of food to put in the freezer, but sadly, I got distracted after a telephone call from one of my ante-natal class friends, who had her baby a few days ago, telling me how wonderful being a mum is. Now, I’m even more excited!

On Sunday I took a long walk to the park in the estate, to watch Patrick play football (well, it was about 15 minutes in total, but for the size of me and my achy hips, it was practically a marathon). The weather was really nice and after the match had finished, we hung around, watching all the kids playing nearby and talking about what the baby will be like when our baby is older. We felt really close and bonded, and it almost seemed strange thinking that in about a week, we could be a proper family and have our own little baby to look after. It still doesn’t seem real.

I decided tonight that I should have a bath and shave my legs as they are getting way too hairy. I know I’m being stupid as all the midwives and doctors will hardly be interested at the sight of my furry legs during the birth – but it made me feel better anyway.

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I know there is no guarantee that our baby will arrive on schedule next week, but I just feel really excited knowing that I’m going to meet her soon. I think it’s because it feels as if I’ve been pregnant forever that I’m kind of like ‘bring it on!’ I’m not sure I’ll feel the same way after 12 hours of contractions, but at least I’m feeling more optimistic now. I went online and got chatting with a couple of new mums about the pain of contractions, and they both said they are incredibly painful but it was a good pain rather than bad, and that it was just about bearable. I hope I feel that way too.

In other news, my Mom is moving in this weekend. It was a mad rush getting the guest room ready for her, but we managed to, somehow. It’s funny because even though I blanched at the thought of having my Mom as a house guest for the next 3 months, I’m actually looking forward to it now. At first, I told myself that it’s the good food I’m craving, but if I’m to be honest, I find myself looking forward to the conversation…the advise…and all the nuggets of wisdom my Mom will surely bring. Yes, we haven’t had the easiest relationship over the years, but now that I am about to be a mother, I find myself beginning to understand why she has done some of the things she has, over the years. Yes, her way might have been a bit too tough in the earlier years, but I now see that she was trying to make better people out of us, myself in particular. And yes, she was very distant in the years between 2002 and 2007, but I now understand that it couldn’t have been easy to first of all lose a child…and then a husband a few years later. My Mom hasn’t had it easy, and she deserves to be cut a little slack. What is clear is that she loves us her children more than life itself. She would sacrifice hers without so much as a second thought, just to save a single hair on the head of any of us her kids.

So…I’m actually looking forward to having Mama Effiowan here after all. As for Patrick…well, that’s another story. LOL!

 

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Catch up on Faith’s Pregnancy Diary here:

  1. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 1: BFP
  2. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 2: Lukewarm Response
  3. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 3: The Struggle
  4. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 4: Tricked
  5. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 5: Keeping Her Man
  6. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 6: Men are so Annoying!
  7. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 7: Bleeding
  8. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 8: The 9-Week Mark
  9. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 9: Festive
  10. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 10: The Holiday
  11. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 11: This Thing Called Love
  12. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 12: The Pregnancy Glow
  13. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 13: The Baby & The Bobo
  14. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 14: Wahala
  15. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 15: The Abortion
  16. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 16: A Good Man
  17. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 17: Joy & Pain
  18. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 18: Hostage
  19. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 19: Ammunition
  20. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 21: Famzing
  21. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 22: Stress Relief
  22. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 23: Diana
  23. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 24: Bestos
  24. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 25: The Miscarriage
  25. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 26: In God’s Hands
  26. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 27: Crossing the line
  27. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 28: Last Minute Packing
  28. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 29: Ex-Girlfriend
  29. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 30: Not Just Friends
  30. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 31: Fight For Him
  31. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 32: Faded Beauty
  32. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 33: Holiday Glow
  33. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 34: The Proposals
  34. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 35: Baby Kicks
  35. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 36: Celebration Dinner
  36. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 37: Rainbow Baby
  37. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 38: Lunch with the Girls
  38. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 39: Wedding Season
  39. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 40: Mama Patrick
  40. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 41: Misplaced Love
  41. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 42: Okafor’s Law
  42. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 43: Forgiveness
  43. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 44: Get it over with
  44. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 45: Family Meeting
  45. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 46: The Goof
  46. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 47: Worship
  47. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 48: Gender
  48. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 49: The Introduction
  49. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 50: Messy
  50. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 51: Passionate Love
  51. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 52: Instagram Drama
  52. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 53: 21 Weeks
  53. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 54: Oppressed
  54. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 55: Age is just a number
  55. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 56: Legally Together
  56. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 57: Monkey on my back
  57. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 58: Your secret is safe with me
  58. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 59: Spring in my step
  59. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 60: Level don change
  60. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 61: It’s my time
  61. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 62: Drama & Baby Kicks
  62. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 63: Love, Joy, Fear
  63. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 64: Owerri
  64. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 65: Untouchable
  65. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 66: Foot Soldiers
  66. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 67: Dem Say, Dem Say
  67. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 68: The Side Chick & The Fiancé
  68. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 69: Dim-Witted Brother
  69. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 70: Day from hell
  70. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 71: A Cancelled Wedding & a Kept Woman
  71. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 72: From Bad to Worst!
  72. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 73: The Confrontation
  73. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 74: Away we go!
  74. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 75: Birthday Girl
  75. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 76: Caught Red-Handed
  76. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 77: Played by a Master Manipulator
  77. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 78: Showdown
  78. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 79: Sad Tears, Happy Tears
  79. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 80: Not the forever kind of love
  80. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 81: My Sacred Vow to you
  81. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 82: Facebook Likes
  82. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 83: Pregnancy Queue
  83. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 84: Braxton Hicks
  84. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 85: The Verdict
  85. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 86: Home Sweet Home
  86. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 87: The Bridal Shower
  87. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 88: The Scare
  88. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 89: Nwando’s Wedding
  89. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 90: Time To Face The Music
  90. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 91: The Witch Hunt
  91. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 92: Bump Envy
  92. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 93: This Evil Family
  93. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 94: Thankful
  94. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 95: People Watching
  95. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 96: New Beginnings
  96. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 97: Dispassionately
  97. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 98: Old Woman
  98. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 99: The Premonition
  99. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 100: The Girl is Fine!
  100. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 101: Three Weeks From Now
  101. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 102: Diana & Akunna
  102. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 103: Of Daughters and Honeymoons
  103. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 104: Practice Run
  104. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 105: Cold Revenge
  105. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 106: Absolutely Nothing
  106. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 107: Selfish
  107. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 108: Back and Forth
  108. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 109: Chief Mourner
  109. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 110: He Will Never Be Mine
  110. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 111: The Showers
  111. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 112: Baby Mama
  112. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 113: Counting
  113. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 114: Soul Searching
  114. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 115: My Baby Girl
  115. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 116: Deep Sense of Knowing
  116. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 117: Judgemental
  117. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 118: The Preeclampsia Scare & The Big Lie
  118. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 119: Malice Keeper
  119. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 120: Idara
  120. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 121: The End of an Era!
  121. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 122: Rooting for Love!
  122. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 123: Unconditional Love…and Baggage!

  123. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 124: A Deep Love!

  124. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 125: Six Feet Under
  125. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 126: Omugwo Loading!
  126. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 127: Well and Truly Free!
  127. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 128: In Full Motion!
  128. Faith’s Pregnancy Diary 129: By God’s Grace!

Comments

  1. Glory

    The last time I read Faith’s diary was no 114. Can I plz get the links?

  2. Debbie

    Glory just type on goggle Faith’s pregnancy diary 115 and so on, you will get the story.
    Happy that things is looking brighter with faith

    1. Oluwakemi

      Thanks Debbie for the heads up.Glory, you can also type Faith’s pregnancy diary in the search button of our website, it brings out everything on the diary.
      Happy reading Faith’s crew.

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